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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 I want to make something clear..."my ex" may still be just that a "ex". You guys that know my past thread understand swhat i mean with my marriage. I want to know though...If you had children is it worth it for you to be really unhappy just to keep your marriage together even if one parent is bitchy and crabby all the time because they feel trapped? I have Kept my family together for the last 2 years DESPITE MY feelins or well being. I love my kids to no end and would die for them but really...shouldnt everybody have a chance of some type of happiness..even if they are alone just the there kids...If some had read one omy my latest post you would see that the ex may not be in the picture at all..he may stay right where hes at. |
Personally, for me, I would do anything to keep my kids' family together. You have to worry about their happiness before yours (not to say you aren't). That for me, would mean, that I would stop being crabby and bitchy and make life easier on everyone. I would try harder and tell my husband how I feel so we can get counseling. Once the kids are grown, do what you want, but chances are by then, you will feel better that you stayed. Divorce is hard on people. Can you raise your kids by yourself, can you go through custody battles, legal proceedings, ect.? Just my opinion, but unless he's beating or cheating, I see no reason in not making it work, FOR ME THOUGH, not everyone feels this way. I would just try to be positive and more upbeat. We have control over our emotions and state of mind, not the other way around.