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Originally Posted by Gidget01
I am a christian and I feel marriage is forever, unless of course their is a scriptual reason for divorce. I feel if it was meant to be with the ex it would have been. I may be wrong but from what I have read, It obviously wasn't strong enough to fight for then as a long distance relationship. Me and my husband dated for 2 years before we were married and it was a long distance relationship. It was hard but we loved each other and wanted it to work. I often think and dream of my first love. We still live in the same town and have alot of history together, we even share the same best friends, so occassionally we run into each other. In fact my husband does work for him once or twice a year. I always get nervous and feel weird around him and the way he looks at me, I can see it is weird for him to. But life took us in different directions and I know that he is not what the Lord wanted for me. I have a great husband who loves me dearly, and I love him dearly except a week ago when he was the part of the cause of Gidget my yorkies death, but no matter what we made a promise to love each other forever. I went through alot with my parents fighting but they fought to stay together and I think that is awesome. First of all the devil loves divorce and so he is always going to tempt you where you are the weakiest. My prayers are with you, that you make the right choice. No one said marriage is easy.
Let me ask you something? Were you happy that your parents fought all the time?
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This question wasnt directed to me, but I'm going to give my personal experience. My parents faught all the time when I was little. They got divroced when I was 9 years old. I was happy when they did bc my dad always caused us so much pain. He used to hit my mom and cheat on her all the time. Now, if my dad wouldnt have been abusive, and they just had problems here and there(because every marriage does) I would have loved for them to go to some kind of counseling and work it out. I think its awesome when a couple that has problems puts in the effort to work throught the problems and makes it. Good luck to you.
PS: Children are not happy when their parents fight, but thet are very unhappy when their parents divorce as well, and if its because of a third person believe me, they suffer even more.