Sweetie...The way you're doing it is MUCH better lol - and it's so special that you really aren't sure and get to be totally obsessed with WILL HE or Won't He ?
I hope it's a YES and things work out for you....just take your time and do it right - it looks like you have a great start now ....and I can't wait to hear more about this after your big dinner. I bet we'll be hearing a big announcement soon
