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Originally Posted by Baby Blessing I know somewhat the feeling of moving being a scarey thing, we are facing the same decision, but are one step behind you. We can not decide where we want to move to. It is such an unsettled feeling ,knowing it would be best to move and simplify life somewhat. We too live in the country, since Jack came down with Parkinsons I find the days are really long trying to keep up with everything, and wanting to have more time to spend with him (as time goes on he will require more of my care) I wonder though about moving to the city, after living in the country for so long. Our son wants us to move close to them. We have been here in Calif. long time too, love it cept for the shakers  Please keep us updated on how you are doing, you sound like a person that can adjust to where ever you need to. Have not been to Washington but hear it is a beautiful place.
Best wishes to you in your new home. Patti and ~~Baby Blessing~~ |
Hi Patti, Im so sorry to hear about Jack! I will keep you both in thought and prayer. It was a very hard decision and I pondered? I made my decision to move by looking at the advantages & disavantages of staying or moving! I drew a line across the top of a piece of paper and a line down almost like a (T) on one side of the top line I wrote disavantages of moving & the other side the advantages! the line going down separates the Dis & adv, In my situation I had more advantages to making the move than staying! So I had to want to change my current situation and this procedure helped me to come to my decision! and I commited to following through because I was able to see the advantages!
you will know what to do, it is so scary to make a big judment call like this but Patti take a look at the advantages vs. disavantages and you will find the answer! good luck to you and Jack...