I'm not going to use the word hate because I think that is too strong of a word so I'm going to use dislike.
I dislike when my husband makes me feel guilty about being on the computer. He makes me feel that I should be cleaning house 24/7. He doesn't say much, but his actions speak very loudly.
I dislike my brother. He's been smoking marijuana for years and recently has gotten into meth. He's been married 4 times and his current marriage is crumbling apart. He's had children with 3 of his wives. He has NEVER made a right choice in his life. The only thing he talks about is about is his self. I don't care for his step-children. One is ADHD, and the other one is 13 and sexually active. My whole family beathes better after he leaves a family gathering. He's the only sibling that I have and I can't stand him!!! Isn't that sad?
I dislike my Dad. Don't get me wrong....I love my Dad because he is my Dad, but if he wasn't I probably wouldn't have anything to do with him. My Dad has mental problems and since he is divorced he is my responsibility. He keeps trying to go off of his meds. My Dad lies all the time. You can't believe anything that he says. And once he tells a lie it becomes like truth to him so you can never convince him otherwise. He has emphysema and was in the hospital a while back, near death. Well he started reminiscing about the past, but he lies so much that I learned absolutely nothing that I felt that I could pass on to my kids as his memories. It really was a sad time for me when I realized that.
I, ok, I'm going to use the word, hate HAVING to clean because company is coming over. I like to have a weeks notice so I can get everything just right. It would also help if my family would help out.
Sorry this is so long. This has been really helpful for me. Life is good and I do have a wonderful life and an absolutely great family. They are very supportive in the problems that I have with my side of the family. |