OH MY... Sounds alot like what me and my family are going through. We relocated to the Midwest four years ago from the East Coast. And, just recently found out that we have to go back. My husband's job shuffles us around like nomads! Oh well...
Any way, there are quite a few "You Pack - We Move" services around. If you have a rather large load to move, I would suggest ABF which can be found at
www.upack.com or (800) 240-7422. They have moved us a few times already.
Good Luck!