OMG...I'm so sorry -
I agree with Teri.....just be the best friend you can be and stand by your friend....Crying is nothing to be ashamed of.....You've lost your husband and that has to be flooding you with even more emotions.....I am so so sorry.... What an awful thing to hear and my heart goes out to her and her family....and to YOU...
sending lots of hugs & prayers for your friend.