Please bear with me as I just needed a place to vent. I have a co-worker that has become such a thorn in my side. She started working here and everyone knew she was trouble right from the start. She would try to turn people against each other and speak ruthlessly against a couple of people, myself included. Don’t get me wrong. She and I have shared words before.
After months of bad feelings, I made the conscience effort to try and resolve things. I apologized…more or less just trying to keep peace. She laughed at my apology and said that I disgusted her. Fine. She didn’t have to accept. I have, in the mean time, tried to move on.
It is difficult, though. Although I do not see her everyday, I am aware of the horrible things she is continuing to say about me and other co-workers. If my shoes aren’t the perfect shade, or my hair is too fluffy, or I make a comment about something that she doesn’t agree with, she starts talking. It’s to the point of being ridiculous. She looks for things to point out. I guess she has nothing better to do with her time.
Others have started taking a notice of her, as well. While only a couple of people actually speak to her, when they are seen conversating, I of course, hear about it. I hear about how she takes things I’ve said out of context, how she is just finding any little thing about me so she can talk. Thing is, those that talk to her are going to get a bad reputation as well. It’s already started.
To be honest, I do not think she realizes how
STUPID she looks! I tried to be nice since she is an elderly lady but some of the things she says are quite shocking. You’d expect someone her age to be sweet and caring but she is the absolute opposite. She is bitter, mean and so hateful. TALK, TALK, TALK! That’s ALL she does.
Who knows! Maybe she’s just jealous…I really don’t know anymore.
Anyway, thanks for letting me vent. I just needed to blow off some steam!
