Her pics are in the nursery, probably way back in the postings! Her name is Fergie, she is pretty small~3lbs.7oz. I see what you are saying about the trauma issue~unless you put it in terms of her smallness, I never even realised how small her incision is compared to what was taken out of her!
I am a bad mommy and never post pictures!!!
Thank you so much for all your wonderful advice! I feel alot better, and so does my husband...after he changed his clothes
Jessica