there is somebody out there who would love to have them both and they deserve a chance for happiness. Besides, if they live in filth they will probaly have a home like that when they get on their own because that's all they know!! who will teach them how to be good parents to their children? My friend in Mi. adopted 10 kids and had 5 of her own and 2 of her husbands that's right !!17 in all --I used to babysit for them but they only had 10 at home at the time. she let them keep in touch with the "birth "mother too!! she only adopted 1 as a baby all the others were older kids |