I know what I said above didnt really answer your original question which was wether or not to tell her mom. So to give my opinion on that: I live by strong morals and ethics and I hate seeing all the crazy things that teenagers do because they make all these crazy descisions that can have permanet affect on thier lives and they dont seem to care. I think when they act out it is a cry out. So yes I think you should say something to your cousin out of love for her. Tell her how you feel and if she doesnt try to fix things tell her mother. I know if that was my daughter I would want to know about her smoking and drinking and anything else going on. |