When we added Abbie to our family, eleven y/o Mozart (terrier mix) spent the first two weeks hold up in the bedroom. He barely came out for food and water, and would not join us in the family room. I was really getting concerned about severe depression. But, slowly...things seemed to turn a corner. I can't say that Mo 'enjoys' Abbie. I mean, who would enjoy having something jump in your face, and pull your tail all the time? But, they have settled into a coexistence we can all live with. I'm confident things will only improve as Abbie moves from puppihood to adult, loosing some of her zest for play.
My advice is: Be sure the senior dog has times set aside just for HIM and you. The puppy should not be allowed to encrouch into this time at all. Also, it seems essential that the senior pooch have someplace that he can escape the constant energy of a growing pup. He needs his space.
If the senior is not left to feel forgotten, nor pressed to accept this 'thing' that jumps at him all day until he's ready, things will probably come along pretty quickly. I think it depends on how much everyone wants the new baby, and how much you are willing to work for a transition into 'family'. It sounds like you want this new pup. |