I'm so glad i came and asked for your opinion's. THANKS to YOU ALL that answered and gave me different views of what she might have meant by calling my baby a "rat" ... it's just not nice to say things like that. It would be different if she had told her husband that quietly, but she said it out loud for me to hear. I dont know why people have to be so mean. How can they be so nasty to something so tiny... it just makes me shake my head.
Oh and YES LOL... she does look like a drowned rat when she's wet hehehe
If ANYBODY is EVER nasty to anyone of your babies, PLEASE SLAP them for ME!