She is beautiful, don't let the ignorance of others get to you. I know it is hard, I get some pretty nasty comments from the friends of my 12 year old son, when they come over to play. I guess with adults speaking the way they did to you, it's no wonder these kids have no respect or common manners. I always tell them, that if he displeases them , that the door opens easily and I'm sure they will have no problem finding their way out.