I don't think its your opinion that hurt her feelings, but probably that you said things like, "they're useless dogs, they're no point. I think they should all be destroyed..." etc. I realize that's just your opinion, but you have to realize how much it hurts the people that own them. Tashasmom in perticular, she thinks of her dog as her other baby. and seeing things like that probably really hurts.
I do feel terrible bad about your baby, and I hope you never have to expierance that again. But I don't think you should say such harsh things when people on this site own and love them...JMO.