My husband is the same way. Everything he wants, he goes out and gets. Course, so do I. This year wracking my brain to think of ANYTHING to get him, I drove by Starbucks!!  

 Instant gift!! I got him a gift card at Starbucks. He drinks coffe, I don't. So he can go there whenever he wants to without asking me what I want!! It's his own litle get away. Sometimes even 
men need to get away!!