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Originally Posted by Baileys_Momma Again, thank you for all of your posts. Today is a hard day for me. My best friend had her baby last night and as a good friend should I went to the hospital and lost it. Just holding that sweet little girl in my arms looking up at me, just so beautiful and unknowing to what lies ahead in this world just broke my heart. Not to mention that I questioned my decision after hold her in my arms. Oh, how am I going to get through Monday? |
That must have been so hard. You are such a great friend. Everytime I hold a newborn baby it makes me want one. I know you love children so much. I am sorry you have to deal with this Have you tried going to your church and praying for an answer? Were you able to call some specialists?
I googled pregnancy + breast cancer and this is what it came up with. I think you had said that you were due in Sept. so I think you're about 18 weeks along. I hope this helps somehow. We are always thinking about you.
http://www.bccancer.bc.ca/HPI/Cancer...nPregnancy.htm
Twelve to Twenty-eight Weeks
During this interval the breast cancer can be adequately treated surgically without terminating pregnancy. Modified radical mastectomy is the treatment of choice. Adjuvant radiotherapy is contraindicated during pregnancy. The risk of recurrence should be estimated based on the pathology of the tumor. If the risk of relapse is high then adjuvant chemotherapy may be given.Cyclophosphamide and doxorubicin with or without 5-fluorouracil is the preferred combination during pregnancy. Epirubicin and taxanes should be avoided. Tamoxifen exposure in the first and second trimesters may be associated with genitourinary abnormalities and therefore should be avoided. Referral of these patients for assessment is recommended.