Ok well I am also divorced and are re-married and have 2 of my own and 2 step kids. I would say this , for her to intervine like showing up at the dentist office, she is trying to piss you off. I don't even care to be in the same room with my husbands ex, this is his position. As close as I am to my step kids I would never dream of replacing thier mother as she is trying to do. If she has been close or brain washing your second child, they will figure this out for themselves one day , but I would make sure she treats ALL your children equally. I know this is trying but I have learned the kids need to see for themselves and they will.
good luck!!! |