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yougetthesmiles · 04-11-2006, 10:01 AM

I was married for over 11 years to my childrens father and we divorced in 2001, I remarried and so has he, my problem is his new wife! She has tried taken over my roll, like today, I had to take 2 of the kids to the dentist and low and behold her arse is waiting in the wqaiting room when I got there! There dad was at work and there was not reason she should have been there.
She belittles me in front of the kids, it's so bad that my 15 yr old wants nothing to do with her or her dad, she has asked for her last name to be what mine is, she feels my husband is more her dad, she does not want to go over to there house on the weekends and he doesent push her to come over nor does he pick up the phone and call her to just ask if maybe the 2 of them could go out and do something 2gether, she has said she dosent want to go over there for the summer this year. I feel she is almost 16 and I should not forse her to go. My 9 yr old feels the same way, but she does go over on his weekends, they have a half brother and the kids enjoys seeing him and now she is prego and ready to pop. But my middle daughter who is 11, is a daddies girl and wants to go live with them! This just devastates me, like today when we got to the dentist office she went right over to her step mom and lovied all over her and she acted like I was non exsitting, she even wanted her to go back in the room with her, she didnt go cause she said she was prego and couldnt, but hannah didnt even ask me to go. Is this normal for the middle child to act like this? This summer she has asked to spend the whole summer with them, and get this....
They have made plans for a family vacation to the beach, they got there beach house reserved and only wants to take my middle daughter and not the other 2!!! Is that not a crock off monkey poo or what???
I really don't know what to do!
Please ohh please help me!

04-11-2006, 10:01 AM	#1
yougetthesmiles BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,295 Blog Entries: 3	I really need some advice!!! I was married for over 11 years to my childrens father and we divorced in 2001, I remarried and so has he, my problem is his new wife! She has tried taken over my roll, like today, I had to take 2 of the kids to the dentist and low and behold her arse is waiting in the wqaiting room when I got there! There dad was at work and there was not reason she should have been there. She belittles me in front of the kids, it's so bad that my 15 yr old wants nothing to do with her or her dad, she has asked for her last name to be what mine is, she feels my husband is more her dad, she does not want to go over to there house on the weekends and he doesent push her to come over nor does he pick up the phone and call her to just ask if maybe the 2 of them could go out and do something 2gether, she has said she dosent want to go over there for the summer this year. I feel she is almost 16 and I should not forse her to go. My 9 yr old feels the same way, but she does go over on his weekends, they have a half brother and the kids enjoys seeing him and now she is prego and ready to pop. But my middle daughter who is 11, is a daddies girl and wants to go live with them! This just devastates me, like today when we got to the dentist office she went right over to her step mom and lovied all over her and she acted like I was non exsitting, she even wanted her to go back in the room with her, she didnt go cause she said she was prego and couldnt, but hannah didnt even ask me to go. Is this normal for the middle child to act like this? This summer she has asked to spend the whole summer with them, and get this.... They have made plans for a family vacation to the beach, they got there beach house reserved and only wants to take my middle daughter and not the other 2!!! Is that not a crock off monkey poo or what??? I really don't know what to do! Please ohh please help me!