I'm sorry, that really sucks! I'm sure I would be just as upset as you are.
When my husband and I first moved out on our own we didn't have a lot of money. So, I couldn't exactly go out and buy expensive clothes like I did while living at home. My husband was trying to be nice and did my laundry for me one day. When I came home I had flowers and a card sitting on the table. The card said, "Just remember I love you". Um... my husband had machine washed my dry clean only cashmere sweaters, and put them in the dryer. Needless to say he doesn’t do my laundry anymore.