As everyone has already said, don't stress anymore than you already are worried about the "what if's". In the end, you will be a happily married couple who might just end up with a few laughs to look back on
My story: My nephew and niece were my ring bearer and flower girl (actually, I told my nephew he was the flower girl escourt cause he would not carry a pillow down the aisle for nothing!). On the night of rehersal, he sat on the back pew of the church and sulked because he didn't want to do it. My sister was all upset but I told her not to worry about it, if he didn't want to do it, don't make him - it was only upsetting him more (my dad had passed away 11 months before my wedding and I was bound and determined that nothing was going to upset me as I was already upset with my dad not being there to walk me down the aisle). Well, my niece, who was three, walked and pranced down that aisle as if she were queen and ruled over all! We went through the rehersal a couple of times and she got prissier and cuter the more she did it! On the big day, when time came for my niece and nephew to walk down the aisle, I just knew my nephew would not go through with it. Well, he surprised us all, grabbed my niece's hand (brother and sister here), and proceded to walk out into the sanctuary. My niece was all smiles, prancing like she owned the place........until........she looked around and saw all those people who weren't in the church the night before. She stopped dead in her tracks, looked around, and proceded to cry...LOUD! My nephew turned around to the back of the church, looked at his dad, pointed his finger at his sister, and threw his hands in the air as if to say "I give up!". My BIL got my niece and told my nephew to go on. He shrugs his shoulders, turns around, and procedes to walk on down the aisle. And all of it was captured on tape. My niece is now 23 years old and got married herself last May. She is my heart and we are extremely close. We laugh about that now and every now and then, we'll pull the video out and watch it.
Congratulations to you and your hubby to be
Suzi