Children should never feel like they are unwanted or ignored b/c the gm has a problem with her child or sil.My children ask me why Granny does not want any thing to do with us and I have to say it is just the way she feels about life in general and that is she is happiest alone especially since my Dad passed a year ago. Hard for any child to comprehend the complexities of some people.There are those that do not have a clue as to what they are missing in life and the sad part is they just dont get it.Cathy and Yoshi