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Originally Posted by hunniebunnie anyone not planning to have children?
hubby and i are at a point in our lives when we're getting constant pressure from the would-be grandparents to have kids. (nothing like an otherwise sane mother-in-law constantly reminding me that i'm no spring chicken). but we're seriously considering not having kids at all.
anyone not planned/decided not to have kids? ever? |
I wouldn't spend too much time on this, because let me tell you, if the Lord wants you to have children, you
WILL have them!! I had my tubes tied 3 yrs before my last child was born
During a procedure a few years after he was born the doctor told me that my tubes had
not grown back together, they were still cut and tied
(we even have the picture to prove it, but I'll spare you and won't poste it
)! So my theory is...it is out of our hands!! If it is in the master plan for you to have kids you will have them...so tell you MIL that if it is meant to be it will and there is no need to keep putting pressure on you!!
Edited to add: Just wanted to say that my "suprise" child is such a joy and adds so much to our family...don't know what I would do without him!!