My parents were in the same boat... they were married for 9 years before they decided to have me and then 4 years later had my sister only because they did not want me to be an only child.
My mom said that before they had me people had just assumed that she could not get pregnant, the real truth, she did not want to have kids, but my dad eventually talked her into it and she is glad that he did...
I think it is your choice, no one else's, you are the one who is going to have to raise them... it is you and your husband's choice.
I would just tell them that it is you and your husband's decision when and if ya'll have kids and you will let then know when the decision has been made... Good luck to you! |