yeah i have had a chat with the mother in law already. besides it's her son that's really really really not wanting to have kids. i'm on the fence about it. but her attitude is kinda like we're just a couple of kids who don't know what's good for us.
i told her if she really wants us to have kids then she'll have to talk my husband into it because he's the real bottle neck. but she feels that it's my responsibility to talk him into it. and i'm like, i can't talk him into something that i don't know if i buy myself. and i refuse to be a married but otherwise single mother with an unwilling father. parents ... can't live with 'em. can't kill 'em.
