I once read that when you have multiples as you do that you should allow the living to "see" or "smell" the one when he/she has passed on. This allows them to know that they are dead. I don't know if this will help in the "wondering where they are" part later or if it helps them to grieve. I will be in this situation one day because we have 2 sibling golden Ret. that have never been apart--even when they go to the groomers, vets etc. I wish I could remember where I read this but I can't. Just food for thought here. |