Aha

Foung one......no 'from the back shots' but in this one of Cheri ...the hair hanging OFF her ear grows on the back...this is the butterfly look I meant - and I love it - but if you cut too much - then it looks funky...which I DID
see that wisp of hair way up top ...and the right side is uneven....that's a screw up on my part...so this is what NOT to do again lol - (thanks.... I didn't know she was cut uneven till I saw this pic)
but this kind of shows you how the hair on their ears grows when it starts getting long......and it also shows I was way off target trimming her last time