Why is it when WE lend them money...and want it back.... they use that LAME "I spent it on us" line of Bull ?
I had the SAME thing happen....I was so in lust with a guy - gave him 1000 of my money I was saving for a new car....EVERYTIME I asked about the money he skipped around the subject....I finally said...I need the money and we had a deal.... it was susposed to be paid off in 6 months....and Viola - then he informs me....."I spent the money on Us"
Uh...I had 2 kids ...I paid the the total rent and bills and I bought the food and paid for any nights out. WHO Spent the money on WHO ?
Just that lack of communication and trust ruined that relationship because he lied to me for months about that stupid money....If this guy can do all these things now...then you need OUT. |