It is very obvious that you are ready to get out of the relationship, now the question is what the heck are you waiting on? Who cares if his feelings get hurts because your feelings are what matters here. We girls have to take care of ourselves because no one else is and if takes a guy getting his feeling hurt oh well. I was in a relationship for 3 years, and my parents hated this guy and keep telling me he was wrong for me. After a while a took a step back and look at the bigger picture, and noticed all the stuff they were telling me "he drinks to much, he puts his friends and family before you, he is taking you away from your family/friends". I reallized and was very unhappy and had to do something about it. I talked to him about it and express my feeling to him, and he pretty much said I was being selfish. So needless to say I had to stop seeing him because I could not be in relationship that made me unhappy, and he got his feels hurt. I felt bad for hurting his feelings, but my happiness is more important. If I were you I would stop wasting you time, because who knows while you have been wasting your time with this jerk, you may have already met and past up mister right. |