I see red flags!!!!
Hey, sorry, but no way would I give up Princess. It's been over a year,
he should have talked about this a lot sooner. I would sit him down and ask him. What his plans are when you have children? Are you sure he wants them??? I think he wants to be in total control, he needs to learn you are a team, and you have to work on everything together. If he really loves you, he will work things out, if not, it's better to find out now.
I wish you luck, go with your heart, but never let anyone control you.