My hubby caters to Lexi as if she was one of our children and Bentley sleep on him every night. Neither one of mine are completely house trained yet........oooooopppppss.........but we both pick up crap and clean up pee and bathe and change puppy pads and feed. So it's about 50/50. Some people just don't like small breeds. He may NEVER bond with her and this may ALWAYS be "your thing". Just like the fact that some men don't activley participate in the raising of their kids until the hard part "infant/toddler" is over with. I would just spoil my little girl and thank god you have someone you can bond with. They are gifts from heaven and if he doesn't like gifts ---oh well--- his loss! |