oh, hon....how terrible that you have to go through this! I can't imagine being with someone who didn't feel the same way I do about my animals. My husband knows I love my pets, and I'm sure is not crazy about all the money I spend on them, but he loves me so will do whatever it takes to make me happy.
I'm of the belief that a relationship should be that way...and I can't see why you should be put in the position to choose between the boyfriend and your pup...or your boyfriend and anything for that matter! To me that is truly unfair of him to ask that of you....and it's not taking your feelings into consideration at all. Your feelings are important and sacrificing them now, before you're even engaged, sets a precedent that could set you up for years of having to sacrifice other things in deference to him.
I would definitely do some hard thinking about your relationship. If you were to give up your Pixie, then what next?
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