Oh wow...this is a hard one. My husband and I have been married for 24 years. Oscar was like Pixie and chewed on everything and it made him mad. He finally chewed his laptop power supply cord and I was afraid that was the last straw. But I started crating Oscar when we were not around him. Even now, if we leave him alone, he is in his crate. Plus, when he chewed on something like that, he was scolded pretty bad...he knew better next time. As far as her barking when he kisses you, she is just saying that you are hers. He will just have to get used to it. Scold her when she does this if you don't want her to bark and she will figure it out. As far as him making you choose, there may be other underlying problems that might have been there before Pixie. In my opinion, Yorkies can be very much like children...they behave the same way sometimes. Were you planning to have children with this man...will this be something he can handle...some will say that you can't compare animals and children but it is something to think about. Marriage is a very give and take situation. You need to be sure and read all the warning flags before you commit to it. I wish you the best, I wish your boyfriend the best and wish little Pixie the best. You have a lot to think about and consider here. |