WEll you might not have made definate exact plans but fron what you said it seems you IMPLIED to her she was invited. i understand you changed your mind but it seems you are making up excuses to make yourself feel better by saying no babysitting plans and such were made. i also have to say that if you really feel you did not invite her then I think you wouldn't be stressing. Plus if you wanted to uninvite her an email was really cold
Hope this doesn't sound rude but you asked what we thought and I am only saying what I think... doesn't mean I am right but just what I am thinking
