I'm not sure anyone asking ?? of MaryKay is going to get the answers they want. I'm thinking at this point she knows what she did to get herself into this situation and feels badly. Let's not question why she did it. I'm confident she's figured out her mistakes and hopefully will learn from them. I think you should find a permanent forever home for the "big guy" MaryKay and be done with it. Advertise in your local paper and please offer him at a reasonable price. Screen your potential buyers carefully and place him in a home that your heart tells you is the right place for him. God Bless MaryKay and I'm confident that if you place this "big guy" in a great home his life will be grand!! Hope this helps...