[Lovetodream88]

You need to talk to your vet about an anxiety medication for her she sounds miserable with that anxiety. As far as the poo there can be many reasons for it. If she is actually eating the poo they have “treats” at local pet stores and online for poo eating but because she is eating both you will need to give them to her and her brother. I had to use the ones from Petco on my youngest when we got her and they worked great. Telling her a firm no will only work if you see her doing it otherwise it’s to late. You might want to use baby gates or exercise pen to keep them in one area while you are gone so to not be dragging poor all over the house. I would also look at training with her to build confidence while you can do it yourself I think a trainer or even behavioralist would be helpful. Only use positive reinforcement training.