If you have the time and resources to handle 2 dogs, I say do it. However, be prepared for the possibility that you might have the same 'problem' with the second dog.
As you know, these little dogs are very smart and in tune with our emotions, almost like they can read our minds. I believe that sometimes dogs are intimidated when they sense a human wants or expects affection in a demanding sort of way. It's difficult to explain. Your doggy likely knows exactly what you are thinking and goes to your husband because he is "easier."
Best way to avoid or overcome it is to not force anything on the dog. For instance, I have always given my dogs a quick bit of affection like a kiss or a hug and then let them go on their way. They know that I am not going to hold them against their will, so they come back for more.
I tease them with "Give me some loving!" and walk toward them with my hands reaching for them. Sometimes they playfully run from me and I pretend to be disappointed and walk away -- keeping it playful. Then they run up for a kiss or a hug and I let them go. They come back for another.
I believe this is why they will come and sit with me for extended periods for petting or snuggling -- that is, after their regular activities.
Best wishes in your decision.
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