[aweitzm1]

I am sorry you feel this way. I read the posts more than I actually post here but find really good advise when needed.

However, there have been one or two occasions that I felt after posting that a few of the responses were hurtful. I have to remember that They care and want the best for my babies just like me. I am a very analytical thinker and not very emotional so I try to take it from the below view point

1. I sometimes am not great at expressing myself through writing and may not have explained the situation properly
2. Only you know your babies best and what they can and cannot handle. We are not there to physically see how they are feeling or acting. When advice is given we can only go by what is written in the post and previous ones.
3. I also do not have a support system for when my babies are sick so I understand where you are coming from.
4. Sometimes you need to take the advice with a grain of salt. Incorporate what is given in the post but follow the doctors advice and your own gut feeling.
5. At times I have to sit back and leave the site for a few days after reading something I did not want to see or hear. If I don't follow the advice does not make me a bad mom and it should not make you one either. As long as you are doing the best for your babies that is all you can do.

I hope this helps.