Thanks for your replies I really appreciate it. Well, I have managed to get him out for a walk, several times now. Although he doesn't come freely but seems happy when we get home. He's allowing more touching and even came to me of his own will last night and curled up on my knee like a cat.
Still really really struggling with food though. The only food he will go near is chicken, if it's hand fed. I decided to try mixing cheese and chicken in with his dry food in his bowl but he won't go near. It's been 3 days since he's eaten anything and although he's still drinking I'm getting really worried now.
I'm torn because I want him to eat so I want to feed chicken by hand
But that won't be his actual diet and I can't hand feed him forever
I'm stumped and little man is sleeping alot although is well