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Originally Posted by Gew  Your post scares me because no dog should have to be the clone of another, no matter how wonderful. I say that with confidence, but I am guilty of exactly the same thing. My beloved Jami died a month ago after six months of sickness. His breeder followed the whole ordeal. A week ago he called and offered me a dog. I thought when I went to see him he would look just like Jami. I hoped he would....however, he was a different color, different size (smaller). The breeder quietly said, he is yours if you want him. I know you will grow to love him if you love him for who he is and not for who he isn’t. He said to take time and think about it. Well, Sunday I am going to pick up Finley. Jami lives in my heart forever, never to be replaced. Finley will move into my life Sunday and I am sure will someday join Jami in my heart.
Hope you find just the best dog for the dog and you. |
I am someone who has always chosen to welcome another little one in when we have lost one of our beloved companions. We have not waited, but have added a new member to our family knowing full well that we would have to mourn, and accept, the passing of our dear pet, and that the newest baby could not "replace" the one that we were missing so much. For that reason, we have purposefully chosen a dog that looked different...that is how Beauregarde, our now curmudgeonly poodle, joined the family. Likewise, when we lost Ozzie and Tucker (standard colored yorkies) in a short period of time, we chose to bring our beautiful parti Tyrone into the fold.
Your breeder is correct...you will love Finley for who HE is! Part of the wonder of these beautiful. intelligent and loving creatures is that they are each unique, and form a magical connection with us in their own ways. I have three wonderful children who were born within the span of four years. Although raised in the same home, all of my babes were born with their own "wired in" quirks. I truly believe that there is a very strong "nature" in the nature/nurture formula. Our furry babies are the same.
Have a wonderful time learning all about Finley! In short time, your devotion to each other will be the gift that helps you have only fond memories of your beloved Jami.