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Originally Posted by BayleighL  We have a 2.5 yr old little girl. She's the envy of all when we are out and about. Yet still I find myself expecting her to look like the pictures of show pups all groomed perfectly and posing for the picture ALL the time. It's like the Barbie effect or whatever male stereotype one might hold as the image of perfection. I have to contain my desire to primp this poor pup into oblivion. Anyone else like me?? |
Wow, sorry for some of the harsh responses from other posters. I took your post as that you're a proud parent of a gorgeous Yorkie and wanted to start a friendly discussion about expectations and standards. I'm sure your fur baby feels your love and affection when you "primp" her. (And yes, I believe Yorkies can feel pride: just look at the way they trot!<g>)
I work for a performing arts center and I love it when parents dress up their little girls in party dresses and princess crowns when coming to our shows. (And the boys in little shirts and ties, although I'd LOVE to see a boy come in with a crown some day!<g>) I really don't see it as reinforcing gender stereotypes or creating body issue images. Instead, I see it as parents creating special moments with their kids.
While I brush and comb Fabian before taking him out, I also post photos of him on Instagram after getting wet and dirty playing in the grass. I love both sides of him.