Make her feel more secure on how much you love her. Come up with some different ways of telling your daughter how much you love her and how special she is to you. Leave a long hand written note on her bed so she can find it when she goes to bed at night. Put a note in her lunch box. Put a note in with her clothes when she goes to spend the night with a friend. Take a bar of soap and write a love note to her on her bathroom mirror after she goes to bed so she can find it in the morning. I have done a lot of these for my kids. They still have the letters that we wrote (my husband wrote letters too). My youngest daughter is 13 and we still put notes in her bags (At the beginning of school I take a permanent marker and write on the inside of her notebook how much I love her and that I hope that she's having a great day. She sees that everyday.) I tell my kids what great parents they are (I have married children), how beautiful they are, how special they are. I don't hold back on the compliments. My kids are VERY special to me and I want them to know it. You'll find that it all will come back to you (anyway in my case it has). I find love notes in my clothes when I go somewhere or notes left on the kitchen table for me to find. I hope I've given you some ideas and that they're helpful. |