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Originally Posted by matese  Just like a little puppy, it takes a lot of training to get them to where they should be. I can understand it is overwhelming, but you have to stay positive with this little guy, they sense negativity, anger, fear, stress and happiness in their humans and feed off your emotions. Remember, "baby steps" in everything you want from this boy. Everything is still new to him, he is still learning who you are. Him sleeping in your bed is a good sign, but you still have a long way to go. No one knows what this little guy went through in his past, first he was in a pound, then the shelter, then a family, back to the shelter and now to you. As far as you know he has lived in 6 different places, and who knows how many places he may have lived in before going to the pound. 6 different homes in perhaps less then a year, just wow. I would suggest a professional trainer to talk with, get some tips, I hate to suggest bringing in a trainer to work with him as he fears strangers and I honestly don't know if that could make him worse, more fearful. But you need professional guidance. Why don't you work with him for a month, that will give him time to know you better and build a bond with you and your husband. See how he is at the end of a month. If you feel he's aggressive with you, hubby or strangers, then seek a professional trainer. The trainer will give you the learning tools to work with this dog. 6 different living quarters in less then a year is huge for any dog. Please keep us posted on this little guy, he's had such a tragic life until he came to you. |
I feel so sorry for the wee man. He is an adorable wee dog and so brave. After all he has been through he still shows trust and affection when he feels safe. And I think that is going to be my approach, making him feel safe so he can learn to trust and be more confident.
I know one of the handlers who works at the shelter so if I need some help with training I can speak to him as he has worked with Geoff before. It has only been a week and I can see positive changes as he starts to feel more secure. My hubby and I have decided no more introducing him to strangers for a while. He can see people from a distance when walking but until he feels safe we aren't doing to risk it, after all we are still strangers to him.
I really want to do my best for him, I couldn't even consider sending him back to the shelter. I do believe with patience and time he will find himself and like you said he may not be perfect but who is.
I really want to thank you Matese for taking the time to read my posts and replying. I think my own confidence was low and needed some reassure.