I know exactly how you feel. I had such guilt when we just had Wylie, then added Marcel. Wylie become very anxious and needy and insecure, poor guy. But he adjusted over time.
Your eldest will be okay..just give lots of TLC and give it time...
__________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann | Pfeiffer | Marcel Verdel Purcell | Wylie | Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° |