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Originally Posted by She-ra's Mama Well, I found out last week that she wasn't the same dog my aunt sold her  . So thankfully she is no relation!! I looked at the mother's pedigree and sure enough she isn't. I just can't, It just isn't there like it was with both She-Ra and Harley. Plus, I have a 17 mth old and she doesn't understand puppies break, so it is a number of things piled onto one pile. When I see Bella I cry, b/c I know She-Ra is gone, and it hurts too much to do that every time. |
Oh Amanda, I am so sorry. I would hope a puppy would help in your grief. Of course, she's NOT She-ra....just like any pet....She-ra was one of kind, and won't be duplicated. There are similiarities, but I think each has it's own personality and ways that make you smile. You may add another to your heart but there are not replacements. Trace did some things that I positively loved and I'm fairly certain another yorkie pup will NOT. Yes, I'll miss Trace's antics, but hopefully some day another will give me something else to love. Perhaps it was too soon for you. I am no stranger to death. I've lost many pets and many people. It's d-mn hard. Some of us grieve much longer than others. One person may deal with it in one way and someone else another.... nobody's is the right way to do it....just their own.
If your decision is to part w/ Bella, it is not because you are a bad person. Not at all, you just weren't ready for what you thought you were
I am so sorry....trust me.