Wow! How awful for you to be stuck in the middle of this. I think the mother needs to know. As you said, you would want to know if it was you. My 15 year old son came to me a few weeks ago and told me he tried smoking. We talked about it and he understood it was a stupid thing to do. Well, he has one friend who is just the most mature, wonderful young man. That young man came over one night and asked to see Kevin. They sat in the living room talking for about an hour, then Kevin asked us to come into the living room. He told us both that he'd been smoking. His friend Vinnie talked him into telling us and told him he wasn't leaving until they talked to us together. (Vinnie was pretty surprised to find out I already knew, he thought Kevin was pulling his leg when he said he'd told me). Maybe you could do something like that for her. Just go there, be with her and make her tell right then. I don't know, I'm sorry you have to go through this, what a sad situation. |