I assume she is keeping the baby? If so, the mother will have to find out sooner or later, and it's probably best for the mom and daughter's relationship that her mom find out sooner. I would hope the mom supports her daughter and helps her through this, as you can't change the past and making her feel bad about it will not do the daughter any good.
I believe if the child is a minor, that her mother has the right to know. If your daughter's friend is 18, then she would be considered a full adult and responsible for her own actions.
You can try to give her another few days or a week to tell her mom about it, but if she still fails to tell her at that point, tell her that you will tell the mom directly. It may also depend a bit on how close a friend you are with the mom, as not telling her may strain your relationship with the mom. It is a very difficult situation you are in. |