Im sorry you are having a really hard time of it. Have you tried diapering her, she is 14 and I don't think at this point that training is going to work. If she is having disc trouble I am sure she is in a lot of pain. I can understand that you are getting tired of the clean up. I get it, even when you love someone or your beloved pet it can get more then you can deal with. At 14 1/2 her live is coming to an end and maybe this is what you are seeing. If you feel the quality of life is poor then maybe its time. Have you asked your Vet what they think. Its a hard thing to do end of life is hard. I know all you wanted was some comforting words . Do what you think is best and dont feel guilty you have loved her for 14 1/2 years, do not rehome her that would be hart breaking for her. This is just my op. |