Hi, I don't know what to do, shorlty after we got Baby Blessing I started hand feeding her when she was going through, the I don't want to eat stage

and since she didn't seem to be eating enough I kept it up, I know it is my fault but I was afraid she would get ill and after our loosing Cassie I was so in fear of something happening to our new baby. I ask if anyone else has gone through this, what did you do to break the habit. I have been told if she is hungry she will eat but I have tried that to a certain degree and it didn't work. I am now putting a tiny bit of Nutri-Cal rubbed onto the dry food trying to entice her to eat on her own, but I definately don't want to form that habit for her, can someone tell me what to do to get this hand feeding habit broke, besides stop it Patti. Thanks, Patti and ~~Baby Blessing~~