Everyone has all given you some good advice on this issue. I hope I don't appear rude but I don't understand the concern about the wetness when she pees. When a lady uses the bathroom she is wet too until she wipes herself so that is only a normal thing to happen as I see it. Any animal will be wet after they pee. I don't like the feel of it myself and I guess that it is what you mean. I hope you will enjoy your baby and these things will become easier for you to manage and not so stressful to you. Welcome to YT
